Question: “I’ve been told that picturing the audience naked will help alleviate my nerves when I have to speak in public. Does that technique really work for some people?” – Ryan, Burlington VT

Question: “I’ve been told that picturing the audience naked will help alleviate my nerves when I have to speak in public. Does that technique really work for some people?” – Ryan, Burlington VT

“I was sitting there hoping they wouldn’t call my name – because the idea of having to give a speech in front of everyone in the world is terrifying.” — Reese Witherspoon, on her anxiety before winning the 2006 Oscar for Best Actress for “Walk the Line.”
For those of us who have watched celebrites and other public figures give terror-stricken acceptance speeches…let us remember that we’re all human and we all get nervous in front of large (and small) audiences. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re still extremely nervous before giving a speech that you’ve rehearsed extensively. The most important thing is to stick it out and give that speech.
Some of the most successful (and wealthiest) speakers I know are still nervous before facing their audience. The key thing is that they know to expect these nerves, to practice, practice, and practice, and then to get out in front of their audiences anyway.
The only way to get over a fear of public speaking is to feel the fear…and do it anyway.
This is a reprint from Seth Godin’s blog post from April 18, 2010. He talks about the effectiveness of marketing that preys on people’s rational (or irrational) fears. Which is so much like the fear of public speaking. Many of us have it; we can control it, or become overpowered by it. But I especially loved what he had to say about it in the last paragraph:
“If your fear keeps you alive, embrace it. The rest of the time, the best strategy for success is figuring out how to ignore it, befriend it or use it as a compass to find what matters.”
Amen to that.
Here’s the full post from Seth’s blog: Read the rest of this entry »
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