Question: “I’ve been told that picturing the audience naked will help alleviate my nerves when I have to speak in public. Does that technique really work for some people?”    – Ryan, Burlington VT

Answer: I love this question! This is one of the great theories of public speaking, and is common advice given to new speakers as they are about to face their first public speaking challenge. You ask if this really works for some people, and I have to tell you…I don’t know. If any of my readers find it helpful to picture their audience naked, I’d love to hear from you!
 
In my opinion, this is a complete and total myth. Speakers have enough to worry about with the content and delivery of their presentation, engaging with their audience, making sure the technology works, and making sure that their trembling hands aren’t obvious. Now we have to make the extra effort to picture the audience naked too?? 
Of course, if we were speaking to a room of supermodels and Chippendale dancers, we would be excused for making the effort. Sadly, this is usually not the case. So regardless of how good [or bad] your audience might look naked, I would recommend that you turn your focus onto giving a great presentation.
 
Your presentation should be about informing, engaging, and persuading your audience. It’s about THEM. It’s not about the tricks you need to fool yourself to be less nervous. Remember, your audience is probably filled with people just like you – a nice, friendly person who hopes to get something valuable and worthwhile from the presentation. With practice and preparation, you’ll be able to face your [fully-clothed] audience with confidence!  
 
 naked in office

“I was sitting there hoping they wouldn’t call my name – because the idea of having to give a speech in front of everyone in the world is terrifying.” — Reese Witherspoon, on her anxiety before winning the 2006 Oscar for Best Actress for “Walk the Line.”

For those of us who have watched celebrites and other public figures give terror-stricken acceptance speeches…let us remember that we’re all human and we all get nervous in front of large (and small) audiences. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re still extremely nervous before giving a speech that you’ve rehearsed extensively. The most important thing is to stick it out and give that speech.  

Some of the most successful (and wealthiest) speakers I know are still nervous before facing their audience. The key thing is that they know to expect these nerves, to practice, practice, and practice, and then to get out in front of their audiences anyway. 

The only way to get over a fear of public speaking is to feel the fear…and do it anyway.

This is a reprint from Seth Godin’s blog post from April 18, 2010.  He talks about the effectiveness of marketing that preys on people’s rational (or irrational) fears.  Which is so much like the fear of public speaking. Many of us have it; we can control it, or become overpowered by it. But I especially loved what he had to say about it in the last paragraph:

“If your fear keeps you alive, embrace it. The rest of the time, the best strategy for success is figuring out how to ignore it, befriend it or use it as a compass to find what matters.”

Amen to that.

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